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The Last One

ANNIE AND JAKE HEATH
 

 

It's been quiet over here on Ida Street. In fact, if you've been paying attention, you might have noticed things have changed. My last name changed, my url redirects to a new space, my facebook page has been unpublished, and I've shifted my priorities. I've grown. 

For the past seven years and twenty-seven days, this digital space has been my blog – first named Magical Simplicity, then Ida Street. I've shared some very weird posts, really thoughtful ones, really questionable fashion advice, and really fun DIYs. But for the past two years, it hasn't felt exactly right. I left Cincinnati. I got married. & there was something else lurking in my creative mind. 

I finally identified it as Ida Blooms. I am the sole proprietor of a floral design and workshop entity focused on empowering the DIY bride and making flowers an achievable, accessible way to build relationships. I archived all of Ida Street Blog into a single folder (it's under the far right tab, for now), re-purposed the Squarespace platform, and refreshed the logo. Why? Because my mentality remains the same. 

Ida Street was a place to document my growth, to learn, to share, and to love. I'm still doing that, just, in a new form. So, this is my last post. I've been working on it for a year. How fitting to post it today, on Jake & my's first anniversary, as a testament to our wedding and the day my new life began. 

Thanks for the great ride, friends. Stay in touch. 

xox

Annie

 

 

Oh what a nightttttt. 
Late December, Back in '63. 
What a very special time for meeeee. 
As I remember, what a night. 

Ok, not all of that is actually right.
It was May 27, back in '17.
Ya, just (two months, errr four, I mean six... that is exactly) one year ago. Clearly, I've been working on this post for a long time. Ha! 

But it WAS a very special time for me. 
It was the day Jake and I got married. 

It was the culmination of a lot of effort, by a lot of people. It was fantastic vendors, amazing individuals, and delicious food. It was a day of love, of emotion, of promise. It was my best friends, my family, and my guy. 

It was the day I became part of a pair. 
It was incredible. 

But, that doesn't describe it well enough.
So here's the video & some pictures <3

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My goodness, it is so fun to look back at these! I can't believe we've already been married for a year! My best friend and role model, Natalie Folchi of Folchi Creative, did us the great honor of photographing our wedding. I am so, so proud of her, and SO in love with the result. Her second shooter was my great California friend, Diana Lustig.

The video – oh dear lord, the video – was shot by Shane Harrison. The editing and resulting work of art was completed by one of my longest friends, Jenna Heaton. 

Our cake was made by Cincinnati-based organic baker, Angie Phillips of Canteen Bakery. Our bouquets and flower girl crown were made by Katie Smith of Katie's Blooms. The rest of the flower arrangements, and even the boutonnieres, I assembled with my sister, sister-in-law, mother, and mother in law (FOrEsHAdoWInG). I got the flowers at bloomsbythebox.com and had them delivered the Thursday before our wedding.  

Our caterer, Jeff Thomas of THE Jeff Thomas Catering, ROCKED THIS WORLD. He is an event planning guru and made our day absolutely us. Our donuts were by Holtman's, though I did have to tactfully avoid saying I was ordering for a wedding.... 

We held our mass at St. Stephen's Church. Reception was across the street at the Carnegie Center of Columbia Tusculum. This is a very special neighborhood for us, because Jake and I met just up the street, at my post-college apartment, almost exactly four years before our wedding.

My solo bridal shoot was held at the Queen City Vignette studios. This was also our back-up location for family photos, in case of rain. But luckily, the rain held, and we got to do those at Alms Park – in my old neighborhood of Columbia Tusculum (remember this blog post about the park, from a million years ago??).

My bridesmaids and I stayed at this gorgeous Airbnb in OTR the night before and morning of the wedding. Our makeup and hair team, Hannah Quirk and Chelsea Skurow from Salon Oakley, were dreams. The rehearsal dinner was at 50 West Production Works

Our stationary (invites, save the date, programs, etc) was the work of my talented littlest sister, Colleen Butler. Our "Hooray" cake topper was a gift from my two sisters' etsy shop, Hickory Twine. We had a great DJ (DJ CEO) and a live band (The Suede Jackets) who kept us dancing all night... with the help of an open bar by the awesome folks at DEPS Fine Wine and Liquor. 

The bridesmaids ordered their dresses from Azazie.com. They had 50-some options to pick from in the color, material, and length I chose. My dress (ha, the real one, not this dress that almost was) and shoes were from BHLDN. I used a service called Once Wed to buy an unworn resale of the dress at a discount. I got alterations done here, in San Francisco, by Marissa at Tailor Maid. My veil was borrowed from a neighbor :)

My mom's dress was from BHLDN and my Mother in Law's dress was from Dillard's. The boys' suits were Tommy Hilfiger, modern-fit in plaid. We got them at Macy's. Their tie clips, ties, and Jake's bow tie were from The Tie Bar. Their crazy animal socks were from SockShop in Haight-Ashbury. My adorable flower girl got her boho dress on Etsy. Our super stylish ring bearer got his suspenders and bow tie on Amazon. Did he rock his vans or what?

Three days before the wedding, when our forecast said rain, we worked with The Alleen Co. to get a lighted tent for our patio. Best decision ever. Our guests loved it out there.

There are sooooo many vendors, friends/errand-runners, volunteers, and loved ones that made this day possible. They each own a piece of our heart for making our day a dream come true. & to all you awesome attendees......... 

Ohhhhh what a niggghtt.
 

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I guess I would say the coolest thing about having a professional photographer as a bestie is that my life looks FREAKING GLAMOROUS.

But in all seriousness, I am still coming off the high of my bachelorette party last weekend. It was the best weekend of my life (until the wedding replaces it a month from today, I'm sure). I've heard so many brides-to-be say that, and I always smiled and thought it was a little weird. In fact, I didn't want to have a bachelorette party. I thought it was too much to ask of my friends. I moved 2000 miles away and left most of my best friends in the midwest. How could I ask them to fly to California for just two days to celebrate with me when I will see them at the wedding in one month anyway? 

But my sisters talked me into doing it, and I couldn't be more grateful. Honestly, to have so many of my friends, in such an absolutely bEaUTifuL place, in the midst of wine country... well I've just never felt more loved. 

I'll post later about what we did to prep for the weekend, because my trio-MOH sisters and I learned A LOT about how to throw our first bach party.... but for now, here are some pics that Natalie took. Enjoy!

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Photos by Natalie Folchi of Folchi Photography & Natalie Was Here Blog. // & because some of you have asked, my jumpsuit is from Urban Outfitters. I think they're sold out, but here is the romper version! 


Two Steps to Kickstart Your Life of Less Spending

I moved to California almost two years ago. In the blink of an eye, my financial outlook went from "Wait, I have to fork over $750/month to live in this beautiful apartment in the best part of Cincinnati???" to "Thank God I found this shit-box, tiny bedroom in the Tenderloin for $1,800/month. I hope the police don't try to break down the door again tonight.

My savings account depleted as I turned in huge rent checks, big security deposits, and scoured the internet for deals to furnish my little place. Half of my paycheck was going to taxes and what did end up in my bank account went straight to rent. For the first time, I wasn't able to pay off my credit card bill at the end of every month. 

The problem was, I was consuming like I was still living my old life. Clothes, meals, alcohol, furniture, vacations... I didn't really have the cushion in my income for it anymore, but I was buying like I did. Maybe even more. My rent was so high, it made all the other numbers seem really small. A $120 pair of pants equaled 1/18th of my rent! Not bad! 

I racked up a lot of debt. 
Cut to my #1 goal of 2017: get out. 

So anyway, Jake and I sat down and made a budget. What came out was an aggressive plan to pay off our loans. No room for shopping.

So, that's where we are now. I'm trying to remove the temptation of things. Have you ever been there? Or maybe, are you there now? These two steps helped me kickstart a new way of thinking about stuff, and hopefully they can do the same for you.

Step 1: Unsubscribe from all the email marketing

A 40% sale doesn’t mean you’re saving 40%, it means you’re spending 60%.
— Annie's Coworker at Lunch

I've had the same email account since I was 18-years-old. Over the years, I've subscribed to tons of email newsletters: Madewell, J. Crew, Anthropologie, Urban Outfitters, West Elm, CB2, Target, Etsy, Kate Spade, Asos, and more, and more, and more..... it was insane. I loved it, too. I work in advertising, so I excused the newsletters as a way to keep up with industry trends. What are the good subject lines? Which ones catch my eye? 

But, you know what really happened? I bought things. Every morning, I logged in to my inbox and deleted all the newsletters that didn't stand out. I read the ones that did – which, unsurprisingly, were flash sales. Eighteen months ago I bought a Rebecca Minkhoff purse on a surprise sale.  Today I barely use it. One year ago, I purchased a second pair of glasses because "they're cuter than the ones I have." Now, I can't find them anywhere.

I didn't even notice how much the marketing was working on me..... and I'm IN marketing! I am literally trained to sell things to people, but I didn't see what I was being sold. 

The day after Jake and I cracked down on our budget, I unsubscribed from over 30 email lists. Theory being this: I won't buy things just because they are on sale anymore. Rather, I'll make the effort to look for the things I really need, when I really need them.

Step 2: Watch "Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things"

Minimalism is such a buzz word these days. We hear about minimalist decor, capsule wardrobes, tiny homes. Have you ever wondered why it's such a trend, though? Maybe, just maybe, minimalists actually are happier?

For a few years I've been thinking a lot about minimalism. Part of it was forced on me – my last apartment was 250 square feet. Some of it, though, was from curiosity.

A couple weeks ago, I was g-chatting with my best friend, Natalie. I was lamenting the fact that, even in debt, I was still buying clothes. I wanted her to tell me my most recent purchase (a wool coat from Madewell that was "just the perfect length to wear with my longer shirts but much thicker than my other long coat which I can't wear during the cold weather") was a good one. She did make me feel better..... and then she said this, "but Annie, if you want to stop buying clothes, watch this documentary. It will really convince you that less is more."

I did watch it. & I think you should, too. Natalie wrote about it already, so I'm going to send you over to her blog for some lessons from the film. But here's what I think you should know: it's 78 minutes long. It's on Netflix. You won't regret spending the time to watch it. 

Minimalism: A Documentary About The Important Things.

Okay, so that's what I've got. I'm no where near out of debt. & I also just spent $4 on a lunch I could have made myself. But... I'm a little more cognizant of it all, and I think that's a step in the right direction. 

Let me know if you have more tips :)


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Introducing: Jake

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So I've been keeping a secret, albeit not very well.
I've been seeing someone. A really awesome someone. For the past three-ish years. 

It's been hard to keep it from you! Jake is a huge and wonderful part of my life. & he even works behind the scenes of Ida Street quite a bit – with the code, the photos, the concepts, the editing, and the projects. 

But a really long time ago, I made a rule that I wouldn't introduce any love interests to this blog until they were a permanent part of my life. So I guess thats a nice tee up to what I wanted to tell you today:

We're engaged!

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This summer was very busy, we bounced from one wedding to another, and from work event to work event. In October, I moved into a new apartment! & funny story, my uHaul caught on fire! It was the worst! Trying to figure out that fiasco, and then making the plans for this new place have pretty much taken up all my time. Not to worry though, some new DIY projects coming your way soon!

Later that month, during a hike along the Pacific Ocean, Jake proposed. My family secretly flew in to help us celebrate & literally that night, I lost my voice and started a week long illness!  

Stuck on the couch in sweats with laryngitis, I pressed publish on the first episode of Scenic Route – a storytelling podcast I co-host with my future sister-in-law. It's so fun, and pretty funny, so take a listen ;)

The next two weekends brought our first visitors in this new apartment, including my bestie Natalie who took these amazing engagement photos for Jake and me! Seriously, couldn't you die?! So romantic!  

The work front has been in full swing, too! Part of my job is planning events for our sellers, and Holidays sure are a popular social time. So all that is to say, I'm sorry! It's been a little busy and I've been neglecting you. But I hope you're excited to finally, finally meet Jake. It's been a long time coming. 

You guys are gonna like him. 

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Annie wearing: dress / shoes / engagement ring.

Engagement photos at Black Sands Beach

Wanna know a little more?

Wellllllll... Jake and I met in 2013 in Cincinnati, which is where we will be returning for our wedding this May. He's a computer engineer, a kind soul, a strong back massuist, a super smarty pants, a builder, a bicyclist & and a great cuddler. He's also pretty easy on the eyes ;)

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It's been so fun planning our wedding, and I'm so glad I finally get to share it with you! So I guess that's it! The cat's outta the bag! Send all your wedding tips this way! xox

Photos by Natalie Folchi / Location Marin Headlands, Black Sands Beach / Annie's dress / Annie's shoes / Jake's pants / Jake's shirt / Jake's shoes


So this is 26.

Today is my 26th birthday. In most ways, I feel like not much has changed since my 25th birthday. I still have a solid relationship with my family and all my sweet friends. I'm the same height. I weigh about the same weight (+ a few pounds, thank you Mr. Holmes). I cut my hair, then I grew it out again. From the outside looking in, I'm pretty much identical.

There is one major difference, though. I moved! & not only did I move apartments, I moved to a new coast.
So, I guess everything about my life is different, really.

I remember writing this birthday post on the eve of my 25th birthday from a hotel room in Buffalo, New York. If you had told me at that moment that in a short 365 days I would be living on the opposite coast, with a stitched up hand, 3 emergency room visits, two heartbreaking losses, lots of new friends, countless new experiences, one skiing lesson, one surfing lesson & one tiny tattoo... well, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't believe you. 

I think that's an awesome blessing about living in the unknown, though. Had I seen all those things stampeding down a looking glass toward me, I probably would have crawled into my bed and never left. But I had no idea what was on the way. Instead I had to take it step by baby step, by a few leaps of faith.

I haven't any clue what my 26th year will bring, and I don't want to know.
Every year we have to choose to leap again, right into the unknown. 
& every year, in the middle of a normal day, I expect you take a look at your life and realize all those leaps taught you how to fly.

xox


Photo: Jacob Heath, Nikond3200 35mm | Edits: Adbobe Lightroom and Photoshop
Past Blog Birthday Posts: 2015, 2014, 2012, 2011 (x2)